Do you hate yourself?
Are you not sure?
Well, here is a test if you are either loving yourself of hating yourself. Or just not sure yet. Go to your bathroom or any room that has a mirror inside. Look at yourself very closely. Stand there for a minute or two. Your eyes should dialate. If your eyes dialate, then you love yourself.
Here is another idea. If you are in a relationship with someone, whether it is with your crush or boyfriend (or girlfriend in this case), stare at each other for a long time. You can tell if your crush likes you or your boyfriend or girlfriend likes you. If each of your eyes do not dialate, then you know what that means. You do not like that person. You are probably saying, "But that's impossible!! I love HIM or HER! Well, I suppose you just like someone else in fact. Do not know who that person is yet? HE or SHE is probably nearer than you think. Maybe HE or SHE is your friend....Hmmmm? Maybe? You are probably saying "No...HIM or HER?? We have been friends for so long! I can't like that person!!!" Well, you do, Hun. ^^